That’s right I don’t do grades.
I’ve been asked and I’m going to go ahead and tell you my opinion.
Grades are for the birds. They are stupid (I don’t use this word lightly). I don’t think they show a good representation of what the child knows.
Now, I know a lot of people put a lot of stock in grades. My parents did when I was in school. My inlaws did with my husband and his siblings. Public and private school teachers feel they are the be all and end all of a school career.
I’m not talking grade level (that is a whole other story with lots of opinions as well) I’m talking grades like in tests, quizzes, homework, writing assignments, etc.
My children do take tests and quizzes however they ARE NOT graded – I may do it just to see but they in no way dictate our school, because they don’t show what the children are retaining and learning. Grades stink! I lived in fear of test grades, quiz grades, project grades and the worst – report cards. Fear. I was not a good student – I learned – but when it came to tests I was terrible, but I managed to squeeze by. I didn’t want my children to experience this same fear of grades and missed questions. I’m not running my home school like a mini-public or private school, my school is a place to nurture and bring children up first and foremost for the Lord – not for academic achievement. They will know their 3 R’s but if they never do calculus or physics that’s okay with me as long as they have obtained a living and working relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.
Do I check their work? Yes. Do we correct missed problems? Yes. If they miss a math problem we go over it, and over it, and over it (most days). If they take a test and almost all the problems are wrong – I know their weakness and what we need to work on – if they get the majority of them all right, then stupendous! Do I tell them “hey, you failed!” or “hey, you passed!” No. My children are like me and for whatever reason if they feel like they’ve failed they will do a lot of bad self talk – “I’m stupid”, “I’m dumb”, etc the same thing I did while in school. So either way grades are pointless. My oldest will be going into, if she were in school, the 5th grade for the 2012-2013 school year – so the years of no grades are coming to end for her. I’ll have to start tracking soon so she can get high school credits and graduate eventually, will it be the everything in our school? Definitely not.
I’m considering this year to have her take a standardized test at the local private school. While some would turn these scores into their school district, I’m not. The testing is for me. So I know what we need to focus on in primarily, math. Her reading is above her peers so I’m not worried about that and since we are studying our own science I’m not worried either – if I could have her take just the math portion I would. Even if the test showed she was a genius the school district still wouldn’t get the results.
I’ve come up with a final review/exam for our science. There are 50 questions, so 2 points per question for a score of 100 or an A. I’m not doing it to say whether they know everything or not, mainly to see if we need to back track and review more material or if we can go ahead in good conscience to our next science come June. Will there be a grade? Only if one of them request it. Otherwise, they’ll chose their answers, we’ll go over it together and be done.
So there you have it. Why I don’t do grades.